I noticed that My 34yr Brother treats others ( Guys & Ladies) better than me... and i HATE it...?

I'm 32 and i know that's what brothers do ... push little sister around.No , No, No... I love my brother and would do anything for him... but just been noticing that when i'm around him he treats others Nice,Sweet Talks, laughs, with them ... I confronted from saying did i say or do something wong? he said he wants us to spend time together but understands i'm Marry Now...He's Marry and has 3kids WHICH I BEEN THERE EVERYDAY till i got MARRY and have my own life now.. and we do spend time when there's Bar B Q or Holidays etc... he just treats me like i'm annoying him . ( he said am not ) i miss he's calls & texts... My Husband told me start thinking about myself and not him...i Can't STOP thinking about this & him... PLEASE HEP ... & Thankyou xo